Chore Chart and Whatever Friday

How is it Friday again? Seriously? Another week is gone?

Next year I’m asking for more days in a week (preferably during the weekend) from Santa.

1. Um, next week is Valentine’s Day. I’ve been baking goodies for all of you but have not done anything for my family. #bestgetonthat

2. A few weeks ago I posted on Facebook about chore charts. This, in turn, ignited a huge debate about chore charts vs. allowance vs. family responsibility. Really, I just wanted ideas for how to get my kid to do her chores without nagging, yelling, or drinking (me).

That said, I do feel there are some chores (most, actually) that are just family responsibility. Hey, it’s my job to cook and clean, my husband pays the bills and mows the lawn. We don’t get paid for it. So I totally agree that Jordan should do chores just because she’s a member of the family.

However.

Jordan gets an allowance each week ($5). Right before I posted that status update, I realized, as my husband was paying her, that her room was a mess, the dog had been fed with much whining, and I couldn’t walk to my family room lamp because oh-the-crap. So…even though her allowance wasn’t tied to money…I really didn’t think she deserved getting any. So…in a roundabout way, allowance is tied to chores. If you don’t feel like doing your chores, I don’t feel like giving you my Starbucks Money.

chore chart hanging

So, I read through the posts and pinterest and came up with a chore chart for Jordan. One that is not tied to money…but she ain’t getting her money if all I have to do is nag her about chores. And guess what? So far, for the most part, it’s working!

I made this fast and on the cheap. All you need are index cards (I used colored, ones for daily chores and another color for occasional chores), clear contact paper, and a pocket chart. If you have a laminator you can use that, but contact paper works great.

I found this chore list and printed it out. I had Jordan go through and pick the things she already did and/or thought she could do. She highlighted pretty much the whole thing. Then I cut the index cards in half and wrote the chores on each one (multiples for chores she has to do every day, like feed the dog). She helped with this.

Chore Chart collage

Then, cut a long piece of contact paper and remove the paper backing. Lay it on the table with the sticky side up. Place the index cards on the sticky side. Cut a second piece of contact paper, remove the backing and lay it, sticky side down, over the index cards. (I like to do this a little bit at a time – just remove a small amount of backing to start and unpeel as you stick it down, so it doesn’t bubble and wrinkle.)

Cut your cards out, place them in your pocket chart and you’re done! (I got my pocket chart at a local school supply store.) Each day she turns over the daily chores as she does them, and then checks to see if there are any “additional” chores, like empty the dishwasher or put away clothes (things she didn’t do before but does with minimal arguing now). She’s even cleaning her own bathroom on Saturdays. That, in itself, is priceless.

So…go make a chore chart. They work. :)

3. Oh, and I posted sugar this week.

sugar 2_5

 

Red Velvet Molten Lava Cupcakes
Chocolate Chip Palmiers (along with an Indoor French Picnic!)
Nutella Chocolate Pudding Cookies with Strawberry Hearts
Truffle Stuffed Brownie Pops

4. And, in case you missed it, I guest posted Mexican Chocolate Truffles over at The Frugal Antics of a Harried Homemaker. #YUM.

5. I made Nikki’s BBQ Beef Taquitos for dinner. They were amazing! Go make them. DO IT. ;)

6. I got a new camera/laptop bag. More info coming soon!

7. Did you see my Red Velvet Pie Recipe over at the Marie Callender’s Blog? #doubleYUM

Okay, I have more to say (when don’t I?) but I reallllly need to go. T-7 days until Birthday & Party Week begins.

Have a wonderful Friday, and an even more wonderful weekend!

xo, D :)








Comments

  1. I so tried to make a chart, then I got lazy, I like yours as mine was just a paper one he had to check off.
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  2. Love your chore chart. Definitely have to bookmark this idea for when my kiddos get older and start doing chores. Great idea! Have a great weekend! :)
    Jennifer @ Mother Thyme recently posted..Italian Turkey Burgers + Giveaway!My Profile

  3. The chore chart is a great idea! I paid my kids when they were in grade school a fixed amount a week. As they got older, the chores changed (like doing their own lawndry from 8th grade on). That was one of my favorites! Good luck, it’s not easy sticking to it, but it’s worth it!

  4. Laundry-haha I just saw that!

  5. LOVE the chore chart – are chores are not really tied into the allowance either, but I also decided that if chores weren’t done, the money was not going to get “done” either – we’re starting on Sunday – hope it works
    Heather @French Press recently posted..Red Velvet CrepesMy Profile

  6. Awesome chore chart! I know what you mean about baking/cooking lots of stuff, but NOTHING for the family. My husband complains about that sometimes, haha! I am cooking him a really nice dinner tonight that is NOT going on the blog, and I just know he will really appreciate that :) Have a great weekend!

  7. I love the chore chart! I should do that for my girl. She’s only four, but I could make a little kiddie version. Thanks for sharing! And I super loved your treats this week! Seriously amazing!
    And I want deets on the camera strap. I want/need a fun one!
    Have a great weekend, friend!
    Back For Seconds recently posted..Mediterranean Fish TacosMy Profile

    • Totally! That link for the Chore Charts in the post lists the chores by age, so you can see what she should be able to do. Believe me, I was surprised when I saw them! :)

  8. Dorothy love the chore chart, I have a chart also but I give each kiddie a chore for the week, and then change! Love all your Valentine’s treats those Red Velvet Molten Cupcakes look YUMM!
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  9. I think you are right on the money ;) with this! I was raised that chores are family responsibility but I also think (after working in a bank for several years) that the most successful people with money learned at an early age how to handle money. My husband and I have been talking about how we are going to implement an allowance and chores this week. My oldest wants to own EVERY Pokemon card (and tell me about every. single. one) thanks.
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  10. That red velvet pie sounds amazing! I need an 8 year old around here to do the laundry…That’d be kind of convenient.
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  11. Chore chart = such an amazing idea. I don’t have kids, but I feel like this could motivate adults too… lol!
    Kelly @ Hidden Fruits and Veggies recently posted..Vegan Banana French ToastMy Profile

  12. I missed the chore/allowance debate, but this is exactly how we do it in our house too! You get money so you learn how to budget (you want toys, you save, ‘yo). And you have to help around the house because you are part of the family. And if you break the rules, you lose stuff (like cash, ‘yo).
    PS I’ve been obsessing about molten lava cakes since you posted them!
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  13. We just started a chore chart a few weeks ago. I used to say I wasn’t paying a kid for something he should be doing anyway, but keeping my sanity is also important. :-) Your chart is great–I love those pockets!
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